Till Death Do Us Part

Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga

Life’s main activity is production. All other pursuits support productivity. One must process something into value, making the means and ends their own. A person must utilize their environment to cast out their outstanding strength, which they depend on.

The Role of Marriage

Partnership emerges as a way to support and secure the competency of the household. In this process, individuals choose a reliable partner to share with. The union becomes a cornerstone for productivity, growth, and survival.

The First Support

A person’s genuine support, before engaging in other pursuits, is a strong partner. Soon after acquiring enough stability, one should convince their partner to join them. Detaching from reliance on others, they should confide in their partner to navigate life’s obstacles.

The Choice of Values

The choice of values and principles should align with the couple’s shared approach to overcoming challenges. This harmony enables them to build a strong foundation for their partnership.

The Duties of a Strong Partner

1. Carry the Destiny: A partner should remind their significant other of their shared goals and aspirations, ensuring they stay on track.

2. Advisory Role: A partner should provide guidance and support to foster abundance in their family’s life.

3. Care Domain: A partner should be the craftsman of care, ensuring a balanced diet, hygiene, comfort, and well-being in their home.

4. Beauty: A partner should cultivate a welcoming environment, making their home a haven.

5. Morality: A partner should design and uphold the moral fabric of their family, promoting a good reputation.

6. Reproduction: A partner should nurture and educate their children, imparting valuable life lessons.

Redefining Production

Production encompasses all aspects of survival and growth. It’s the process of converting plans into tangible results. From an accountant’s calculations to a farmer’s harvest, every contribution counts. Even the simplest acts, like a mother’s care, are vital to the production of a healthy, thriving family.

Balancing Roles

For a harmonious partnership, both individuals must accept and respect each other’s unique roles and strengths. By doing so, they can work together seamlessly, supporting each other’s endeavors.

Mutual Support

Partners should work together, leveraging their individual strengths to create a balanced and prosperous life. While the partner focused on household duties is the primary caretaker, the other partner can contribute by generating resources and supporting the family’s well-being.

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