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The Missing Curriculum: Life Skills 101

 






Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga


As we emphasize the significance of learning are life skills included in our schools curriculum, a crucial question arises: where is the school of life? Does anyone know? A person who lacks proper judgment will often harbour misconceptions. Is it true that we must learn these skills on our own?


There are unique skills that academic learning doesn’t cover. Unlike academic knowledge, life skills are acquired through direct experience rather than implication.


Peculiar Skills

1. Judgment Skills: Central to many aspects of life, judgment is crucial when faced with multiple alternatives. Developing sound judgment is vital.


2. Decision-Making: Informed judgment precedes every decision. This skill is essential for navigating life’s challenges.


3. Productivity: Every life must be productive, regardless of circumstances. Discernment is necessary to choose the right path and maintain productivity.


4. Relatedness: This encompasses communication skills, addressing objections, and pursuing goals despite hostility.


5. Observation: Developing observant eyes is critical. Without this skill, one may fall prey to deception.


The school of life operates differently from traditional academia. There are no classrooms, and success isn’t measured by scores. Instead, outcomes demonstrate mastery. Experience serves as the best teacher, and each individual is their own student.




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