Children Master Your Mistakes untaught, Not Your Rhetoric Virtues

Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga

Children are born with an open and receptive intellect, eager to absorb knowledge and experiences. Their minds crave substance, seeking to fill the void with whatever information is available. Like a new computer demanding software, children require input to grow and develop.

However, it's crucial to recognize that children learn more from observation than empty persuasion. They absorb their surroundings, mimicking behaviors and attitudes, often more openly in public than in private. This highlights the significance of parental influence, as children reflect the principles, neglect, or weaknesses of their caregivers.

Many parents hide behind their children's youth, neglecting to acknowledge their own role in shaping their child's character. Yet, children's actions are often a manifestation of the values and behaviors they've learned from their parents.

Key Points to Consider:

1. Children are self-directed learners, absorbing information from their environment.

2. Children lack the ability to provide oral feedback, making observation and reflection crucial.

3. Parents are often their child's first heroes, influencing their values and behaviors.

4. Children do not inherently possess bad intentions; their actions are shaped by their experiences and surroundings.

By acknowledging these truths, parents can take responsibility for their role in shaping their child's character, recognizing that their actions and values have a lasting impact on their child's development.

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