Self-Autonomy: The Power To Resources Control

Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga

To truly possess anything, you must first possess control over yourself. Without self-authority, you’re at the mercy of others, and forced to appease them to maintain the possessions they give you. Every man was created with enough potency to manage resources. Without or with lack of resources life is difficult to contain so short-changing yourself of the power within you begins resource lack

The Power of Control

Control is the ability to attract, possess and distribute resources that matter in your life. It’s the capacity to negotiate and offer value, even when resources are held by others.

Salt Analogy

A housewife who befriends a neighbour has wisdom she has created a relationship to ask for salt in times of need, demonstrating the value of relationships in accessing resources.

Forms of Influence

To exert control and attract resources, consider these five forms of influence:

1. Relationships: Building connections and networks. Who are you relating with, and what resources are you likely to gain? When making relationships, it’s essential to be selective. If you have more people who want to benefit from you than you have to offer, your control over resources may dwindle. Build relationships that bring you resources.

2. Bankable Ideas: Offering innovative solutions and value. If your ideas generate profits, other people are likely partner with you. Push proposals to help you secure funding.

3. Win-Win Situations: Creating mutually beneficial agreements. Some corporations prioritize maintaining a positive reputation; if you project a good image, they may be willing to sponsor you. Take your time to study organisation so that you can chameleon your looks to suit their needs

4. Purchase Power: Using financial resources to acquire what you need. Saving money and engaging in profitable investments will grant you purchase power, enabling you to buy what you want. Every cent must multiple before it is used.

5. Command: Exerting authority and leadership. In certain areas, resources are rightfully yours. For instance. Certain Resources arise from your birth rights and several other rights bestowed on you. If you own rural land, you can lease it to a reliable farmer.

By understanding and harnessing these forms of influence, you’ll be better equipped to take control of your life and attract the resources you need to succeed.

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