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Potential Promoted or Shattered

 




Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga


Every person is born with immense potential. However, it’s the experiences, environments and influences that shape their mind that ultimately direct their influence. Instead of waiting for the environment to reward you, control the environment to suit you and promote your growth.


Understanding the motivations of your potential supporters is crucial. They may require either tangible or intangible rewards. When resources are limited, fostering morally deep connections with supporters becomes vital. This encourages potential destiny helpers to seek benefits beyond financial transactions.


The Role of Support in Unlocking Potential

People supporting your cause may be driven by various motivations. Some anticipate tangible benefits, while others find fulfillment in intangible rewards, such as:


- Emotional connections

- A sense of purpose

- Personal growth


The Difference Between Tangible and Intangible Benefits

Tangible benefits are concrete rewards, including:


- Financial gain

- Material possessions

- Social status


In contrast, intangible benefits are abstract and emotional, encompassing:


- Feelings of value

- Appreciation

- Connection


The Impact of Expectations on Potential

When supporters demand tangible benefits that aren’t feasible, it can shatter your potential. For instance, a student seeking to advance may require support from individuals expecting intangible benefits, as they may not have immediate financial resources.


In contrast, those who find fulfillment in intangible benefits are more likely to support your cause without expecting direct rewards.


Cultivating a Supportive Community

You should understand that people are a source of value, be benevolent as much as possible you have nothing to lose. To unlock your potential, focus on building meaningful relationships with people sharing your values and passions. Recognize and appreciate the intrinsic motivations of your supporters and tailor rewards accordingly.


Ultimately, being an attractive and engaging individual is crucial for securing support. It’s not the sponsor’s behavior that matters initially, but rather how you present yourself and the benefits you offer that spark meaningful engagements.



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