Reality, Seldom But Won’t Forget to Visit

Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga

Deception is easy to spread. A word that is untrue is very easy to share and easy to believe. Facts usually take time to verify, and often they’re countered by lies spreading before. By the time facts are ready, lies would have caused enough damage, and it becomes difficult to change. So, words that spread fast should be treated with suspicion.

The aftermath of deception is where reality visits, leaving scars and lessons. It’s in the broken trust, the lost opportunities, and the shattered reputations. Reality may be slow to arrive, but its impact is profound, reminding us that truth, though delayed, will ultimately prevail.

Deception VS Facts

The contrast between deception and facts is stark:

1. Deception spreads like wildfire, often gaining traction before truth catches up.

2. Facts, on the other hand, build gradually, relying on evidence and verification.

3. Deception often thrives on sensationalism, exploiting emotions with juicy gossip or defamatory claims.

4. Facts focus on issues, providing balanced perspectives without resorting to personal attacks.

Let’s refine our approach to information sharing and discourse by prioritizing facts, critical thinking, and responsible communication. By doing so, we can create a more informed and thoughtful environment for meaningful conversations and decision-making. When the truth finally finds itself, we’ll stand on solid ground, guided by evidence and integrity, ensuring we won’t be found on the wrong side.

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