Confronting Troubles Advance Strength

Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga

Everything under the sun has limitations. Even the most feared creatures, like snakes, have their own fears and vulnerabilities. A snake's strength is matched by the bravery of those who dare to confront it. Similarly, human weakness often stems from a failure to study and understand the world around us. Many people cling to myths and misconceptions, leaving them ill-prepared to face challenges.

When trouble arises, the chances of defeat increase. However, by studying the limitations of the threats we face, we can find the strength to overcome them. Conflict is inevitable, and trouble can emerge from unexpected places. Just as farmers prepare for erratic rains by building water reservoirs, we must prepare for life's challenges.

Learning From Others

One way to prepare is to learn from others' experiences. By taking their pain as our own, we can devise solutions to mitigate trouble before it meets us. We can assume we're in trouble, so when real trouble comes, we're spared or better equipped to handle it.

Learning From Ourselves

The proverb "once beaten, twice shy" suggests that we should learn from our own defeats. Trouble shouldn't always leave us broken; instead, we should stand against it and emerge stronger. Strength comes from overcoming challenges, and those who solve problems and wait for the next challenge are the truly strong.

Conclusion

In the end, confronting troubles is what advances our strength. By studying limitations, learning from others, and learning from our own experiences, we can build resilience and overcome challenges. Don't wait for trouble to find you – prepare, learn, and grow. As the strong would say, "Trouble is not the end; it's an opportunity to rise again, wiser and stronger.

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