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Trust Objective Thinking For Positive Outcomes

  Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga  Choosing objectivity over subjectivity can be a game-changer in achieving success. By focusing on objective goals and being stubborn about specifics, individuals can bring their vision to reality. The Limitations of Subjective Perceptions Subjective perceptions can be limiting and influenced by individual experiences, biases, and fears. Allowing perceptions to guide decision-making can hinder success chances. The Benefits of Objective Goals Objective goals offer numerous benefits, including: - Specificity : Clearly defined goals that are easy to understand. You gather up information and set out means of achieving your chosen specific goals. It is a deliberate process that you freely undertake obstacles to reach an aim. - Measurability : Quantifiable goals that allow for progress tracking. Effort put can be measured, say an athlete would like to run a 100m race and outpace competitors. The practice leading to the race can guide if he is good ...

Lyrics Dzinza Ndiyani/Ngubani Isizwe

  Dzinza Ndiyani/Ngubani Isizwe  Intro Choral Global connections, African foundation. Global connections, African foundations   Global connections, African foundations Global connections, African foundations   Verse 1 Africa, listen, I am warning you Africa, listen.  What flows in your blood is eternal  The advice is yours  Don't curse your tribe  Be proud of your mother tongue  Don't abandon the Ubuntu culture Chorus Do you know your tribe? Do you know your tribe? Do you know your tribe? Do you know your tribe? Verse 2 Some believe tribal lines are evil  What is your understanding. People who carried your seed  Fought to preserve life  Through feminines so that today you live What is your understanding of people who carried your seed fought to preserve life through feminines so that today you live Poetry Mzilikazi showed his bravery and moved his people from Mfecane to establish the Ndebele tribe. The entire tribe co...

Defeatist Attitude: An Enemy From Within

  Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga   Life is a series of encounters, and defeat can be a significant setback. However, a defeatist attitude can be a more formidable foe than any external challenge. When you give up, you relinquish control and allow others to dictate the outcome. The Consequences of Defeat Losing can lead to: 1. Reduced support : Others may be less likely to invest in or support a losing endeavor. 2. Diminished opportunities : Repeated defeats can limit future prospects and relegated to lower leagues with smaller rewards. 3. Loss of dignity and pride : Surrendering to defeat can erode self-respect and confidence. What to Fight For To avoid a defeatist attitude, focus on: 1. Scarce resources : In a competitive environment, resources are limited, and securing them can be a challenge. Make an effort to gain your share. 2. Accumulated interests : Protect and advance your existing investments, whether personal or professional. The property you have worked hard for s...

A Man's Faith: Its Impact on His Family

  Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga  The conviction a man holds about having a family is the foundation upon which his family is established. This image fills in the required efforts and the person needed to bring it to life, the wife to be. A relationship that starts with a man full of faith is likely to manifest into a strong family. The Leading Role of a Man's Faith The leading role of a man arises from his initial faith, which he eventually fills in. It's a vision he carries and fills in with a wife that God blesses into a big family. There's nothing very special about men besides their strong faith. The Attacking Faith of a Man vs. The Complimentary Faith of a Woman While women also have faith, the two have different faith natures. A man's faith is attacking in nature, whereas a woman's faith is complimentary. This doesn't imply a difference in importance between a man and a woman. When both blend their faith together, their lives manifest fulfilment. The Na...

I Would Rather Be Extremely Grateful Than Being Filthy Rich

  Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga   In a world where material wealth is often touted as the ultimate measure of success, I’ve come to realize that true fulfillment lies not in accumulating riches, but in cultivating gratitude. For me, being grateful means embracing the simplicity of life, acknowledging the beauty in everyday moments, and finding contentment in the present. It’s about recognizing that each new day is a gift, and that the mere fact of being alive is reason enough to be thankful. I’ve witnessed how the relentless pursuit of wealth and power can lead individuals down a path of never-ending dissatisfaction. The constant need to acquire more, to achieve more, and to outdo others can create a sense of emptiness that no amount of wealth can fill. The Roots of Conflict In my opinion, many of the conflicts that plague our world stem from the following: 1. Trying to live beyond life itself : When we become overly focused on accumulating wealth and material possessions...

The Best Promise Is Your Own Promise

  Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga   Relying on promises from others can lead to disappointment and shattered hopes. When you bank on someone else's commitment, your support is often sought first, only to be left in the dark after they've achieved their goals with your help. Instead of placing your trust in others, focus on your own commitment and pursue your goals with unwavering dedication. Hope is a powerful force that sustains us through life's challenges, and having control over your own destiny ensures that your hope remains secured. It's essential to recognize that promises from others can be fleeting and unreliable. When someone makes a promise, it's often with the intention of extracting certain obligations from you. Here are some red flags to help you identify false promises: 1. Too good to be true promises : Be wary of promises that seem unjustified or exaggerated, as they may be designed to lure you into a trap. 2. Emphasis on your obligations : If the f...

Shrug Off Regret: Turn Your Pain Into Gain

  Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga   I have noticed that old age is often an epoch of regret, a time when we're left to ponder what could have been, without vthe means to correct past mistakes. Physical inactivity can foster reflection, leading to self-blame that erodes hard-earned pride. True fulfillment should come not from relying on our children's support, but from our own hard work and the reserves we've built. However, this legacy can be a double-edged sword. Regret can lead to a damaging legacy that affects not only our children but also future generations. It's essential to recognize the impact of our thoughts and actions on those around us. To break free from this cycle of regret, we must learn to transform pain into gain. Here are a few strategies to help you achieve this: 1. Search for reasons in every situation : Sometimes, we experience pain as a catalyst for growth. Life is inherently a struggle, and understanding the purpose behind each challenge enables ...

Pierce Through Your Past and Control Your Future

  Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga  Why do we feel indebted to the past? The truth is, ideologies, cultural norms, and resource allocation models that were relevant yesterday may no longer serve us today. Resolutions made in the past can become outdated, leading to diminishing benefits and a struggle to make a meaningful living. The only way to break free from this cycle is to forge new resolutions, seek fresh resources, and chart a new course. It’s futile to cling to the past, as it’s a place we no longer inhabit. Here are five reasons why we often find ourselves stuck in the past: 1. The Gospel of Self-Reliance is Discouraged : We’re often conditioned to prioritize others’ expectations over our own aspirations. It’s essential to reclaim our autonomy and make choices that align with our values. 2. Culture is Regarded as Compulsory, Yet it’s Dynamic : Cultural norms evolve over time. What was relevant in the past may no longer be beneficial today. It’s crucial to adapt and ado...