Written by Fred Farai Nyakudanga Defeat can be a bitter pill to swallow, especially when you’ve given it your all. Often, we underestimate our opponents or overestimate our abilities. When reality sets in, our strengths are exposed, and weaknesses revealed. Learning from Defeat Accepting defeat allows us to: 1. Acknowledge our limitations : Recognize areas where we need improvement. 2. Identify blind spots : Understand where our intellect never envisaged and eventually fell short. 3. Strengthen our approach : Develop strategies rather than look down upon opponents through speculation. The Dangers of Pride Maintaining pride by belittling opponents or denying reality develops demeaning speech. Reality will eventually catch up, and it’s better to adapt than to cling to a flawed approach. Moving Forward To prepare for the next encounter: 1. Focus on the future : Set new goals and work towards achieving them. You can’t entertain two tasks equally at the same time; the past will eat int...